• Unpleasant thoughts are impossible to avoid and can significantly impact your quality of life.
• They are a “neurological trick” created by your unconscious brain. They are not subject to rational interventions.
• The root cause of the problem is the human need for mental control. It sets off two different reactions.
  • One is that suppressing unpleasant thoughts causes them to become more frequent and stronger.
  • The other one is that when you try to think about something, you’ll think about it less.
• The final outcome is obsessive thought patterns that fire up your nervous system, which causes you to be in a sustained flight or fight response. This state compromises your mental and physical health.
• The DOC Journey teaches you recognize the nature of these thoughts, and you can move past them into the life that you want.

The inability to escape from unpleasant thoughts has a major impact on many people’s quality of life. Much energy is spent in attempting to control or suppress them. It turns out that they arise from the unconscious brain as a reflex, and they are much more powerful than your conscious brain. Rational interventions cannot and do not work.

The problem arises because these disruptive thoughts become stronger with time and repetition, are memorized, and evolve into obsessive patterns. A historical research term for them is, “URT’s” (Unpleasant Repetitive Thoughts). (1) My description is “RUTs” (Repetitive Unpleasant Thoughts). I refer to this phenomenon as “Phantom Brain Pain.”

Then there even a bigger issue in that they are processed in a similar manner as physical threats and stimulate your body into a flight or fight response (threat physiology). It is important to have this survival response, but it is deadly when it is prolonged. Your body is in high gear and your inflammatory cells are attacking your own body’s tissues. However, thought suppression is only part of this story.

The Ironic Effect

A significant obstacle to health and well-being is the “ironic effect.” We all know that when you suppress thoughts and emotions that they become more powerful and disruptive. (2) But a lesser known, and even more deadly problem is that when you try to think of something, you’ll think about it less. (3) Your conscious intention is overwhelmed by your unconscious brain focusing on ways you may not achieve this goal. Since the unconscious brain is so powerful, it is a huge mismatch.

The problem is that the more well-intentioned you are, the more likely this universal process will kick in. If your intention is to be out of pain, inadvertently, you’ll think about the pain more and reinforce it. The research shows that if you seek happiness, you’ll end up sad. If you try to be sad, you’ll end up buoyantly happy. If you try not to stereotype people, you’ll end up being more prejudiced. It is a major human existence problem in that many people who want to contribute to the world’s well-being, end up being crippled by overwhelming unpleasant thoughts and crippling anxiety. People with few scruples are not as bothered by this ironic effect and perhaps why many people in power run over people that are more conscientious.

The “seed” of this ironic process is the need for mental control – any control. (3)  The effect varies considerably from individual to individual, but it is consistently present. As bad as it sounds, and it is problematic, the solution is incredibly simple. Just write down your thoughts on a piece of paper and destroy it. The act is that of giving up mental control and it is without risk. It is the reason The DOC Journey has you begin this exercise before you get into the substance of the course. Every human being should do this daily like brushing your teeth. Look at it as cleaning out the lint trap of your dryer. Even a few minutes a day interrupts this reactive process. It is also the reason why expressing writing is the one “mandatory” step without an alternative.

Moving past these obsessive thought patterns

Understanding the powerful irrational nature of these inner critical voices will change your life in several ways. First, they are a neurological mechanism intended to protect you. You cannot take them personally. This realization allows you to learn to separate your identity from this reflex and access who you are and want to be. Your “demons” are actually suppressed thoughts and who you are NOT. Again, the more of a well-intentioned person you are, the more intense the thoughts. It really isn’t fair.

The other mechanism of trying to think noble and positive thoughts creates the opposite effect in that you think about them less. It creates disruptive thought patterns such as, “not good enough”, “just work harder,” “I’m a loser,” and “why does this always happen to me?” It is also problematic in that they push you to become “successful”, but you may not be able to feel it. A common scenario is the “imposter syndrome.” It seems many highly successful people feel like frauds even though there is abundant evidence to the contrary.

Where is your attention?

Whatever the reason, the end result is the same. You spend a significant amount of your life energy trying to squelch these voices and they won’t respond because they can’t. In fact, they will become stronger in that you are paying attention to them and stimulating neuroplastic changes in brain. It is similar to spinning a basketball ball on the tip of your finger. It will keep spinning as you put more energy into it. Also consider these thoughts as “dust devils” that are mini-tornadoes that occur in the prairie. They spin extremely fast, they cannot be stopped, or even penetrated.

So, the second way your life will be impacted is that once you understand the problem and realize you are wasting your energy trying to assuage this noise, you can move past them. The energy is now available to turn towards the future and construct the life you desire. Going back to the basketball comparison, as you stop paying attention to these circuits, they will slow down and may stop spinning almost completely. You cannot “fix” these thought patterns. The key is to first separate from them (expressive writing), and then create circuits in your brain that are much more enjoyable. You can also shift onto the part of your brain that already knows how to play. All of this can happen quickly with practice. The energy now available to go this direction will amaze you. You’ll quit trying to solve the unsolvable.

Begin with your disbelief

Your success with this course is not about generating belief in David Hanscom, The DOC Journey, or any other set of resources. That would be a form of thought suppression. Positive thinking generates the same thought pattens through the ironic effect. Your journey must begin and continue by connecting with what is happening at the moment. As you begin this course, that would be acknowledging your disbelief and downright cynicism. You have tried almost everything presented in this course at least once. Why should this experience be any different? Like trying to be happy ends up being sad, wanting to be free of pain causes you to be in more pain. If you can’t seem to get past positive thinking, keep trying. We all want to believe and experience happiness but living in chronic pain is tough.

The DOC Journey presents deeply researched tools that will allow you to calm and down re-route your nervous system as well as ways to regulate your body’s chemical state. It begins where you are and sequentially teaches you tools to accomplish this one step at a time. The way out of pain is truly paradoxical and why The DOC Journey is presented in a planned sequence. It also reflects the journey taken by many successful patients.

Recap:

Unpleasant repetitive thoughts are the “curse of consciousness.” They are unique to being human in that we possess language and can create abstract thoughts and concepts. They become our version of reality and identity. (4) We may spend a lot of time trying to fix or escape from them, but it isn’t possible. They are relentless and irrational.

Understanding the neurological mechanism of how they occur allows you to recognize them for what they are, connect to your own value system, and move past them into a much more enjoyable life experience.

References

1. Makovac E, et al. Can’t get it off my brain: Meta-analysis of neuroimaging studies on perseverative cognition. Psychiatry Research: Neuroimaging (2020); 295:111020. doi.org/10.1016/j/psychresns.2019.111020
2. Wegener DM, et al. “Paradoxical effects of thought suppression.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (1987); 53: 5-13.
3. Wegener DM. The Seed of Our Undoing. Psychological Science Agenda (1999)/ 10-11.
4. Feldman-Barrett. How Emotions are Made. Mariner Books; Main Market Ed. 2018.

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Thought suppression

Disturbing thoughts are universal. When you have a bizarre, even unspeakable thought, of course you would suppress it. Why wouldn’t you?  It has nothing to do with anything about you or your value system. Then, as it arises again and again, it is instantly suppressed.  Eventually the suppression of the thought is automatic. Seems pretty normal, right? Except what happened is that your nervous system inadvertently gave this random thought a tremendous amount of power. Every time that thought is suppressed, that neurological circuit has been reinforced. Over many years, this circuit becomes much stronger and becomes connected with more experiences. (2) Eventually, you may consciously or unconsciously end up spending a lot of mental energy dealing with this anxiety-producing, disruptive thought(s). As you have less success in controlling the ever-increasing and powerful thoughts, you will probably become frustrated, which drives the circuits even harder.

Another variation of this phenomenon is the development of obsessive thought patterns around “forbidden activities or topics.” (3) Just inadvertent  curiosity will stimulate barrages of thoughts. What is perverse is that it is the more well-intentioned person who is more subject to this sequence. This programming process is similar to an accomplished musician or artist learning their skill. It requires years of repetition to reach the highest level. Disruptive thoughts hit the nervous system like a machine gun without an endpoint.

Your reality – your thoughts

You might ask what is the big deal? These are just thoughts. Neuroscience research has demonstrated that thoughts are your version of reality, similar to learning a cat is a cat. Your brain has to unscramble sensory input from all receptors every second to define anything. Your eyes have no capacity to interpret anything. For example, if a person suffers a stroke of the occipital lobe at the back of the brain, they can’t see even though every other component of the visual system is functioning. The term is “cortical blindness.” This is true for all sensations. To develop consciousness, your nervous system has to interpret words, body language, tone of voice, visual cues, etc. for every thought to decide where it fits and what it means. Thoughts and concepts are embedded in the same way as physical reality. We are programmed by our past and the lens through which we interpret the present. As disruptive thoughts strengthen with repetition, they even become associated with physical reactions making them even more “real.” Every human has to deal with this problem of consciousness at some level. It is often overwhelming efforts to escape result in many untoward behaviors and acting out.

Demons

These disruptive thoughts become your “demons.” They are not your demons. They are irrational, non-responsive neurological patterns that I call “robots”. You cannot deal with a robot. You cannot talk to it or reason with it. There is absolutely nothing that can be done from a rational standpoint to change an unresponsive neurological pathway. In fact, when you discuss your demons and try to figure out why they are there, you are firing up and adding complexity to the circuits. They become even stronger and you can’t unlearn them. How do you “unlearn” to ride a bike? You can’t.

It’s almost surreal that we spend so much time and energy trying to contain and deal with our demons. Not only are they not who we are, they are the opposite of who we are.  Otherwise, we would not have suppressed the thoughts in the first place. It is like changing the oil in your car when your radiator is leaking. Eventually, you are just worn down. The other consequence of this relentless repetition of unpleasant thoughts is that your body is responding with stress chemicals, which affects every cell in your body. People become ill.

A common example is that of a body image disorder. It is my contention that every person has some level of body image issues and at some tipping point they may become disruptive. Consider that there is always some aspect of your body that you don’t like. Usually it is a minimal issue that is “not a big deal”. Why even think about it? Except you live in your body and there is no escape from that tiny thought. By tossing the thought aside, you just gave it attention and it will grow and continue to do so every time the thought arises. It is also why some of the most beautiful people on the planet may suffer more than the average person because their attention is on their appearance.

Solutions

The first step in dealing with all of this is understanding the nature of the problem. These “demons” are as real to you as the chair you are sitting on. They create tremendous anxiety, which is frequently intolerable. Anxiety is not primarily psychological. It is measure of your stress chemicals and intended to create a deep feeling of dread to compel you to take action to solve a given threat. When you can’t escape the “threat”, life can be pretty miserable. It is critical to remember that rational approaches don’t work and actually may be counter-productive.

Second, you have to view these repetitive thoughts from a mechanical viewpoint and depersonalize them.  Everyone has some level of them. They are just there and are NOT who you are. Don’t give them any further personal energy. Your brain will develop wherever you place your attention.

Third, there are many strategies to rewire your brain and create new more enjoyable circuits. The term is “neuroplasticity” and the basic sequence is awareness, separation and redirecting. The tools are simple and effective with repetition. Mental pain appears to be a greater problem for most people than physical pain, although neither one is great. Your “demons” are one of the more intense aspects of it. The DOC process presents many proven strategies to rewire your brain, and each person figures out his or her unique approach.

Consider the solution being similar to cleaning out the lint in a dryer. It needs to be done regularly. Otherwise, the dryer will lose efficiency and eventually break down. I consider the use of these tools “neurological maintenance.” It is the way the nervous system functions. Think in terms of neuroplasticity. THERE ARE NO RATIONAL SHORTCUTS.

1. Wegner
2. Mansour
3. Obsessive

JYR, BF

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